MAKE CONFLICT PERSONAL
Turn a disagreement about work into an assessment of character.
Allow colleagues to argue about a decision until they begin questioning one another's motives. Refuse to mediate because healthy teams resolve interpersonal differences themselves. Once cooperation breaks down, describe the problem as a personality clash.
Task disagreements escalated into relationship conflict through managerial neglect.
Evidence, with limitations.
Claim
Relationship conflict is negatively associated with team performance and satisfaction; task conflict is not automatically beneficial.
Evidence
De Dreu and Weingart (2003) reported negative average relationships of both relationship and task conflict with team performance and satisfaction. Effects varied with task characteristics and the degree to which task and relationship conflict overlapped.
Limitations: Meta-analytic associations are not proof that eliminating disagreement improves all teams; task context and conflict type matter.
Sources
These references offer context, not a completed review or a test of this instruction.